Sunday, January 17, 2010

Dinner with Patty Cakes

One of my very best friends, Patrick, majored in film studies and headed out to LA to do some big things as a screen writer and actor. He is extremely talented and I pray every day that something good will happen for him.

Over Christmas break, he was able to fly back to the east coast for a few weeks. The night before he left, we were able to get a few college friends together for a dinner at Southpoint. Katie drove to Winston and hopped in the car and from here we went to Greensboro to pick up Brian +Michelle. We also got a phone call on the way that our friend Josh, who was supposed to be on a plane to Denver at the time, would be able to come because his flight got canceled until the next morning! God was looking out for us! So we all had a great dinner and told some good stories and were able to hang out like old times.

I do miss my Patty Cakes, but I know he's doing the damn thing!!
Patrick + his parents.
Josh + Patrick

Patrick + The Lees!

Patrick, Katie, + Me

Our UNCDub Crew, minus a few!

Man, Does That Feel Good!

I'm so glad I got all those posts done. It was like a little birdy that kept chirping in my ear all day. I thought about not posting them, but the point of this to be able to look back and I didn't want to leave anything out.

We are in exams now at school and I love that time of year. For students, it is awful, but for teachers, it's awesome. We get to dress down, we get 3 1/2 hour planning times while the kids test, and we aren't getting graded on anything!! All of my tests are on scantrons or using the CPS system (where the kids have remotes with multiple choice answers and they get to click their answers in and the computer grades it. Awesome - I know), so I don't have any hand grading to do!!

I did want to show you one more thing about the break.

We have all beige walls. Living in a brand new house, they just panted everything beige and it looks great. We've lived with it for a few months now and decided that we needed some color. We are not beige people. So we picked out colors for our kitchen, our bedroom, and both bathrooms with plans to paint them all over break.

Well, we got two walls done in the kitchen and I was so over. We had planned to only do two walls as accents, but since we have orange peel textured walls, that was such an ordeal. With my OCD self, I can't have imperfections or I'll see them all the time. With textured walls, a straight line is impossible. We used tape, metal paint guards, edgers, and everything else we could find in the paint aisle. Nothing worked. So we did the best we could by hand and called it a day. It looks really good when you don't look too closely to the edges!!

New Year's 2009

It's so funny how life changes.

In college, New Year's Eve was our big deal. We had major plans and new outfits and everyone got together for a great time.

Once we all graduated, that got a little bit harder to do since we were spread out and so eventually, I think people just stopped trying to get together. Such a hard truth about life.

So, with Ja + I being the crazy kids we are, we decided we wanted a night in with just the two of us. So we went to Texas Roadhouse for a few beers and a nice dinner and then it was back to the house. We spent the night watching some TV and playing some Wii, since SOMEONE kept almost falling asleep. Since I rang in the last New Year watching Dog the Bounty Hunter while Ja and the boys slept, I wasn't going to do that again. Even though last year was a great year, so it must have worked out! We played a few games of Wii and then it was time to watch the ball drop. We put some DISGUSTING sparking wine (who knew Arbor Mist sparkling raspberry wine would be gross, but good lord it is!) in the glass that we used to toast at the wedding and rang in the New Year on our couch with our boys and a good kiss!

From the beginning of it, I think it's going to be a great year!!

I still think that is a cute picture, even if I have 16 chins!

Carolina vs. Rutgers

After Christmas, Mom + Deddy hung around for a few days. They were able to play with Anna and spend some time with all of us. Since there were people very willing to keep Anna, Leslie + Will invited Ja + me to the Carolina vs. Rutgers basketball game on December 28th. We had a great night. We went to Spanky's on Franklin Street and had a great dinner and few cold ones before the game. The seats are great and we were lucky enough to see a win (81-67) and it was a great game. The only picture I have of the evening is Leslie sad that she has to wait for the bathroom, but it was hysterical to walk around the corner and to see her sitting there by herself with that pitiful look on her face!!



Good thing we were at the bathroom because I almost peed my pants I laughed so hard.
Thanks for a great night guys!!! Y'all rock!

Christmas 2009

Our first Christmas as newlyweds was truly incredible. We got to spend a lot of good time with friends and family and we got a good few days to relax together without a million places to go and things to do. What a great gift to each other and us as husband and wife.

The Christmas season truly began when our friends John + Jamie allowed us to butt in on their family tradition and go pick out a Christmas tree from a lot and bring it home. So one cold Sunday afternoon in early December we headed toward the mountains of NC and met John + Jamie, John's mom, and her husband at Cracker Barrel for a great breakfast. We then hopped in the car and headed up the mountain to Motsinger's Christmas Tree Farm. What was extra amazing about this whole experience was the fact that it had snowed the day before we went and the entire farm was covered in snow. Since it hadn't snowed yet in Winston and I get 5 year old excited when I get around snow (I am definitely my mother's daughter!), the snow made it that much more incredible. I think we were all really excited about the snow. Once we pulled up, we got out and after a trip to their port-a-potty for John + Jamie, the search was on!

The trees covered in snow. It was beautiful!!

Can't search for the perfect Christmas tree without a few snowball fights. You've gotta watch your back at all times. Here is Jamie tagging John square in the back.

While we were all running around attacking each other and searching for our tree, we decided to have a photo shoot. Ja + I took really cute pictures of John + Jamie amidst the snowy trees. When it was Ja + I's turn, this is what happened. If anyone remembers the wedding and what happened as we were leaving Thalian, this should look familiar!
Once we had decided on a tree, after we had said, 'Hey Babe, what do you think about this one?' about 5,000 times, our big, strong men carried our trees to the front to have them bagged and tagged.


We got our 8' tree for $40. Not too shabby! And these trees were BEAUTIFUL and smelled delicious. If you weren't in the Christmas spirit before you got there, there was no doubt you were when you left. After we paid and louded the trees on the car, we had a nice cup of complimentary hot cider and off we went. Back down the mountain to begin our Christmas decorating. There was only once we had to pull off the road because we were about to lose our tree and John + Jamie couldn't bear to watch our tree fly down the highway. Good lookin' out guys!!
Once we got the tree home, it set up outside for a few days to open up and get ready to be decorated. After a few days, we had completely decorated our new house and it was beautiful. We did a lot of really awesome things, but here are some highlights.


If that wreath looks familiar, you may have seen it in the Pottery Barn catalog for $69. Well my talented and thrifty husband decided he loved it but was not going to pay that for it. So he went to Walmart and bought a cheap wreather and a container of silver and red ornaments and for a fraction of the cost, we had a PB wreath on our front door. And oh how proud he was!
December 18th was the last day of school for us, but we took that Friday off to head to Wilmington for Greg + Michelle's wedding on the 19th.
After the wedding we headed back to Winston because Ja had a basketball tournament for a few days. Once that was over we jumped in the car with the boys and headed to Jacksonville to spend Christmas with his family. We got down their on the 23rd and had a great time having drinks with old friends and getting to spend some time with the Whitehead's, Jason's best friend's family. Christmas Eve we had his family Christmas with a Golden Corral Christmas dinner and a few gifts exchanged. When we were talking about what we wanted for Christmas dinner, Ja's brother's girlfiend said we ought to have some friend chicken. To play along with that, I said we should add some macaroni and cheese. Then Ja said we should have some pizza. We all laughed because of how ridiculous the whole thing sounded, but then we ended up doing just that. And man, was it delicious. After dinner and presents we hopped in the car and headed to Wilmington for the First Baptist candlelight service. Even though Anna Brown wasn't there, I just couldn't have Christmas without going to Christmas Ever service at 11! Christmas morning we woke up and opened the rest of our gifts and had a great breakfast. Then everyone showered and we went out to Jason's grandma's house for his extended family Christmas dinner. After a great meal we hopped in the car in headed back to Winston.

Since we all have significant other's now, Mom just decided she didn't want to have to split holiday's or fight with anyone else about who got Christmas and who didn't. So to avoid that, we are always going to have Christmas on the 26th. That way we can be with our in-laws on the 25th and be together on the 26th. Leslie and Will also get to have their Christmas with Anna that morning and we will all be able to do the same thing once we start popping them out.
The Collins' Christmas this year was amazing. I'm not sure what made it so great, but it was awesome. We very rarely all get together, but we were all there and we laughed and ate and shared. It was amazing.
Anna was showing off her play set and even Jeffro got to enjoy it. Check out his britches and how busted the are! Oh, Jeffro!

Once we all played a bit and got to spend some time together, it was time to get things a-cookin! It was so fun to have all the Collins women in the kitchen. We all had to put on our aprons since we had our jobs to do! This is a priceless picture. I hope we can do this every year and see how things change and little ones get added!


It's also really fun to have little ones around. Nia is now in the 1st grade and Anna is a little over 2. We went for a family walk around the block and Anna and Nia rode in Anna's new wagon. Such a great time.


Once we all ate an awesome dinner it was time to open presents. Ja had a game that night so we quicky shoved food down his throat since we were waiting on him for presents. Banana pants was our elf and she passed out the presents and helped everyone open.


Greg + Michelle were in NYC for their honeymoon and flew into Raleigh that afternoon and drove straight to Leslie's for our Christmas. It was great to hear how their honeymoon was and get to enjoy their first Christmas together.


We all got to read our 'Stupid Poems' from each other and open some great gifts. The most amazing gift was saved until the end. A long time ago, Leslie had asked Jeffro to make her a toy box. He is a word worker and has access to all sorts of scraps and machines. She sent him a picture of what she had been looking at. Well that was over a year ago and no one had heard anything about it. Well he spent the 8 weeks before Christmas hand crafting her this AMAZING toy box. She was shocked and he was the proudest I've ever seen him. So after the tears had been wiped away, we all took a second to look at that incredible gift. It was huge. Made of cherry wood and lined with carpet. It was beautiful and fits perfectly in Anna's room, as if he had come and measured the fit. What an amazing thing to have and to be able to pass down. He needs to start working on some more, because I can promise we're all going to want one!!


The entire Hege family inside the toy box!

We are so blessed to have such a big, close, happy family. I LOVE when we can all get together because we all get along so well and laugh and talk and could do it forever. I'm already looking forward to next Christmas and like Anna said when they were packing up their decorations, 'Christmas always comes back!'

Greg + Michelle's Wedding + Snow!

One of the big events in December 2009 was Greg + Michelle's wedding. Leslie did such a good job with her post, I'm just going to send you over there! She got a lot of great pictures!

The wedding was beautiful and we really did have a great weekend.

After we got back to Winston, it has snowed for the first time of the year and we were so excited to get to play in it! Ja + Anna played in it for a minute and then the dogs went crazy! It was awesome!

Ja + Banana Pants


Riley Dunkin


Ja having a snow ball fight with the boys!


Riley loved lunging into the snow like he was after something and then just eating the snow for a bit!


Our sweet boys! Riley + Harley

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Christmas 'Break'

Wow...this has been a really busy Christmas break!! Between jetting down to Wilmington to be with Greg + Michelle as they got married to getting all over the state to spend time with family for Christmas, I feel like I haven't stopped. I have so many things that I need to write about - ranging from our honeymoon in Vegas that we took IN APRIL, to getting our Christmas tree and decorating our new house, our Christmas party, the wedding, and getting back to play in the snow. I had all intention of getting these done pretty soon, but it looks like these are going to be New Years posts!! After the 26th when we are having our Collins Christmas, I think I'll be able to sit down and get these done. We are also planning on painting our bedroom and bathroom, and doing some winter cleaning stuff. Let's see how much of this actually gets done!!!!